Gary is a man of many layers. At first glance I saw a man filled with dignified reserve. He used diplomacy where others tried to overwhelm; dealt with men by suggesting, introducing, and recommending. Gary has never lost sight of his past. He exercises good judgement, sound reasoning, and accepts others beliefs with humility and respect.
The second is a man of determination. Most men in this setting do not want to change, even when its in their best interest. I saw this everyday. After 28 years Gary continues to help other men, not because they thank him, or even welcome it in some cases, but because its the right thing to do. He sees the goodness in people and will not give up on them.
Anyone who meets Gary will see his intelligence, competence and confidence, but only after I got to know him did I see a third layer. A kind man. A man who loves his family and values his friends. He posses a quality of integrity, I think that describes it best. He understands and is comfortable with himself. He is sincere which gives his words additional weight. I never thought I'd meet a man like Gary - someone I can trust and regard with respect.
Gary and I spent hours upon hours talking about life, family and friends. He talked about the differences between merely surviving and living. He shared his knowledge - spiritual and of sound mind. And in doing so, showed me that the importance of life comes down to just a few simple things: Friendship, Love, Trust, and a belief in something better. Gary as done much more than survive; he's proven that people can change, and that they can forgive too. He is an amazing man. A man I care for and am honored to call my friend.
The second is a man of determination. Most men in this setting do not want to change, even when its in their best interest. I saw this everyday. After 28 years Gary continues to help other men, not because they thank him, or even welcome it in some cases, but because its the right thing to do. He sees the goodness in people and will not give up on them.
Anyone who meets Gary will see his intelligence, competence and confidence, but only after I got to know him did I see a third layer. A kind man. A man who loves his family and values his friends. He posses a quality of integrity, I think that describes it best. He understands and is comfortable with himself. He is sincere which gives his words additional weight. I never thought I'd meet a man like Gary - someone I can trust and regard with respect.
Gary and I spent hours upon hours talking about life, family and friends. He talked about the differences between merely surviving and living. He shared his knowledge - spiritual and of sound mind. And in doing so, showed me that the importance of life comes down to just a few simple things: Friendship, Love, Trust, and a belief in something better. Gary as done much more than survive; he's proven that people can change, and that they can forgive too. He is an amazing man. A man I care for and am honored to call my friend.
Gary
Very kind words, Gary sounds like an amazing person!
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